Apparently I am not the greatest blogger in the summer. Kara has been carrying the weight, despite being busy transitioning into a new job and planning oh you know, just her WEDDING! I am so excited to watch her marry the love of her life this weekend and spend a little girl time celebrating. In the meantime, I wanted to update you all on some fun things we did this summer now that the weather seems to think it is time for fall.
Swim lessons. You may think it is crazy to have an 11 month old do swim lessons but I grew up in the pool so I have been counting the days until I could take Robbie to swim lessons since pretty much I found out I was pregnant. We did them at the city pool that also happens to be about 8 blocks from my office so I was able to walk there every day at lunch and do the lessons with him. Watching him go underwater for the first time was so scary but after he recovered from the initial shock, he loved it! I have noticed that I am a lot more comfortable with Robbie around water and in the bath tub now that we have done these lessons. I would highly recommend it for all of your little ones!
The lessons of course inspired us to get a little kiddie pool for the backyard. It has entertained us on many a hot afternoons. Buyer beware, prices can vary a lot on these. Some places had them for sale for $40 + dollars but we eventually found this one at Kmart for only $19. Lesson learned, shop around.
Robbie turned one this summer. If you haven’t already, check out my recipe for a dairy and egg free chocolate birthday cake. As you can see, Robbie wasn’t too excited about it but my friends humored me and said it was delicious! 🙂
This summer my husband and I also celebrated our third wedding anniversary! We decided to do something as a family and found this great deal at one of our favorite places to spend our childhoods. Fairmont Hotsprings was running a stay one night, get the second 50% off special so we thought it would be perfect. The deal only ran Monday-Thursdays so I took a couple of vacation days and we took a long weekend to just getaway and enjoy our little family. It was so much fun and Trav even got me a massage. Hint guys: a massage is NEVER a bad gift.
We even got a little adult time after the little guy went to bed.
Such a beautiful view!
Another huge milestone of this summer was Robbie starting daycare. I could (and still might) do an entire blog post on this. Finding the right daycare for our little guy felt like the hardest decision I have ever made in my life. If you just Google, “daycare in X city” you will likely come back with a search result of 50-100 places (or more depending on where you live). Where to even begin? I have talked a little bit before about how not many of my friends here have kids, yet, so it was hard to even weed out the good from the bad. Fortunately, our neighborhood is full of kids so I started asking around and chatting with some of the other parents. One of the moms has a friend who just started an in home daycare and we absolutely love her. She has a son who is only 6 days younger than Robbie and it is so fun to watch them play together. There are only 3 kids and it is the perfect transition from an in home nanny, to daddy all summer, to daycare. I am still sort of in shock of how hard this has been for me, though. Despite the fact that I love the place we have chosen and I am positive he is in amazing hands, every single day is still hard for me. I hate dropping him off. He still cries each time and it just breaks my heart as I drive away to work. My husband described it as guilt. For some reason, even though we know all of the positive things that will come from him being more socialized (not to mention the fact that we have to work) but still. I am just left with this nagging feeling that I am abandoning him or something. I hope this is a feeling that fades or at least becomes overshadowed by the positives. Below is a picture of my first day dropping him off. It is a tradition in my family to take a first day of school photo so I am hoping to keep that alive with my new little family.
Thank you all for your patience with my slacking. I cannot wait to post updates on the wedding weekend! Have a great Wednesday everybody!!
-XO, Sio